Its a SOLO act of sexual gratification or Auto- eroticism as a substitute to actual coitus, practiced by both male and female.
Literal meaning of MASTURBATION "is to defile with hands".
Though prevalent in young age, people of all age have been reported to practice this act of sex, just "SEX FOR ONE". Masturbation is perfectly a legitimate form of sexuality and it is not a harmful act as it is thought.
It is a HABIT and not a DISEASE. Virtually all MEN do this Physiological act at regular or irregular interval.
During actual sex act what an erect penis does in woman's vagina, man experiences it in the folded palm during masturbation. Same way females stimulate their vital genitals like G-Spot (Present in front wall of vagina) and Clitoris (Present in upper part of vulva)with the help of fingers or with any object to reach Climax by sexual organ fondling.
Its very easily understandable that actual intercourse does no harm to reproductive organs, so does masturbation. Masturbation truly is both physically and mentally satisfying, as well as spiritually fulfilling, having no hazardous effect at body or psyche.
BENEFITS OF MASTURBATION:
1.Self satiety of sexual desire.
2.Ejaculation in males gives due orgasmic feel rendering prevention of the subject to go for professional sex workers.
3.Prevention from Sexually transmitted Diseases.
4. Prevention from Pregnancy.
5.Society ethics and cultures can be maintained by this act of self enjoyment.
6. Practicing masturbation improves with premature ejaculation and holding of ejaculation for some time.
7. Sexaul frustration to be kept at low levels with masturbation.
ADVERSE EFFECTS OF MASTURBATION:
There is NO negative side effect associated with this natural act of Masturbation, physically. Lack of information about pros and cons of masturbation may lead to Psychological disturbances in youngester's mind. Thats all.
MYTH AND FACTS ABOUT MASTURBATION:
- Men are limited with semen quantity in life. Is it true?
Ans: Sperm and viscous fluid of semen is produced in Testes, Prostate and Seminal vesicles. Its production starts at puberty i.e. at the age of 13-14 and lasts till old age around even 100 years. It is acontinuous process of sperm production. This myth is false about number of ejaculate in a life of a man.
2. Is excessive Masturbation harmful?
Ans: Controlled Masturbation in either sex is not at all harmful to physique of subject. But psychologicalcompulsion for masturbation may lead to hampered emotional, physical and psychological health.
3. What is the normal frequency of Masturbation ?
Ans: There is no such fixed number of this healthy sex activity, Masturbation. It all depends on the sex appetite or desire or eroticism or appeal for sex which varies from person to person. Masturbation is just like being hungry as you fill the stomach with variety of foodstuff. Likewise the eroticism of psyche renders to lead this phase of self gratification.
4. Should Masturbation necessarily be done ?
Ans: It is not necessary but possibly all men do practice it or have practiced it in their life time. Females also practice but it still is considered a social taboo. Scientifically Masturbation allows man and woman to experience orgasm i.e. reaching sexual peak pleasure without any assistance of a partner to release sexual tension. Therefore it is advocated to advice masturbation to teen age boys and girls to alleviate with all sexual desires till they are grown up or mature enough for actual sex activity.
5. What shall parents do if they find their child masturbation ?
Ans: Parents should simply ignore this act of masturbation of their child and not get their child scolded for this so called heinous and forbidden sex activity. Parents are adviced to simply brief their wards about private and public exposures of sex and allied activities.
6. How males perform Masturbation ?
Ans: Males stroke their erect Penis to reach orgasm while making to and fro movements over the shaft of penis with bare hands or woth some clothing or with some lubricant to enhance the feel of gratification. Some practice innovative ways to keep the penis in between two pillows or bottles or water filled bags. Some rubber toys are also available which are made in the exact shape of the female genitals where in the penis can be inserted with delicacy and masturbation can easily be practiced.
7. Does a good frequency of masturbation reduce the thickness or length of penis?
Ans: No, Never. Its medically proven.
8. Does gratification of masturbation is same as actual coitus ?
Ans: Theoritically NO. It all depends upon the attention of subject. Actual coitus is an act of extra long duration with emotional as well as physical involvement of two different bodies through intercourse to reach the pinnacle called ORGASM under excitement.
Masturbation is a solo act having superficial and short duration involvement to find and reach orgasm. Many of the times Masturbation is a routine and compulsive act for males to get rid of frustration, abstinence or pain or exhaustion or routine of life. The masturbation can be enjoyed as good as coitus while even actual coitus may turn out to be just a phasic masturbation.
9. What is the difference between masturbation and Night fall or Wet dreams (Nocturnal Ejaculation) ?
Ans: Masturbation is known as voluntary act being regulated by orientation and intelligence. Wet dreams are involuntary act of ejaculation during sleep because of accumulated sexual tensions. Females also dream in the similar way to reach orgasm involuntarily, but there is no phase of ejaculation as it is there with males.
10. Can Masturbation be advisable to youngesters?
Ans: Yes, because it helps :
- In maintaining physical and mental health.
- Youngesters to recognise and control their sexual response.
- Tmaintain better relationship between teenagers and young adults, by this solo sex activity.
- Females, who dont reach orgasm through coitus can recieve pleasure through masturbation.
- To releive anxiety and tension while one of partner is ill or on tour or in Menstrual Cycle or in late pregnancy or immediately after child birth.
- To function as voluntary outlet of sexual desires. it is to work as pleasurable safety valve which can avoid unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted infection in bachelors,spinsters and in married couples also.
Masturbation is an ethical practice to have by all genders & all age
group aspirants as it helps to control the desire when the partner is
away or you are single. It helps you to get frustrated while no actual
intercourse is possible.
Variety of methods can be had or invented to have this solo act of
masturbation. Males do it by just gripping the erect Penis & having to
& from movement with a partner there in mind.
People may think of having their partner in the bed below them &
simply rub off their erect penis to an extent that ejaculation takes
place. Males can have 2 pillows one any other soft thing
approximated against each other & between them this erect penis can
be rubbed off to reach orgasm.
Females can stimulate their sensitive area by fingers or sex toys or
candles or soft vegetables by rubbing them against. Good female
practitioners of masturbation can have their fingers of any inanimate
thing inside their vagina as well to stimulate G-Spot.